Up to a certain point, I was not really convinced that there is such a thing as love at first sight. Of course, I saw it in movies, I have read about it in novels, but a movie is just a movie after all and a novel is just the representation of the author's perspective and therefore of his truth. Then I opened a door, I was forty-five years old, and in a hall full of people all I could see were the most beautiful, expressive, and alive eyes in the world.

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Similarly, I was not convinced there is such a thing as the perfect relation between a man and a woman. In this case, however, neither the books nor the movies helped me too much. Then I married Anca and I have discovered that the perfect relation does exist and I am among the blessed ones to be living such an utterly unconditional love relationship. And yes we do have an unconditional love relationship but there is something else, it is the joy and the fragrance of the marriage of the polarities of the energy within each of us, it is the blending of masculine and feminine energies both between us and within each of us.

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For many thousands of years the majority of our society has refused to accept and acknowledge that each and every individual has the capability to blend the masculine and the feminine energies into one idea. For the idea of masculine, feminine, is simply the idea of energy polarities manifesting in ways that make sense to us in our physical reality.

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As a complete human being, we are not just masculine OR feminine, we are both, we are masculine AND feminine. Now, masculine and feminine does not mean male and female since feminine and masculine are the polarities of the energy. When this blending happens in balance within one can live a life of fulfilment enjoying the full flavour, the full celebration of the divine beings that we are.

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In each end every one of us lies the power to fully blend the masculine and the feminine energies, to consciously choose the blending of the polarity of positive and negative energy, to fully blend the harmony and love, the happiness that is ours, that is our birth right and is fully enclosed within us and in the marriage of the relationship of the female and the male, there is not the loss of the individuality, but rather the celebration and rejoicing of oneness.